Ok, team, I've been seeing a lot of Facebook links to a specific blog post on marriage. You all seem to just love it. I'm not a big fan of it. Here it is: http://sethadamsmith.com/2013/11/02/marriage-isnt-for-you/ I do agree with it on a couple of pretty big issues. First, marriage and love in marriage are not about making me happy. Second, love seeks the interests of others and is sacrificial. I'd like to believe that is what most people are applauding in this post. However, there is a big underlined portion that I completely disagree with. "You don’t marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy ." Not only do I disagree with this statement, I think it's dangerous. I suppose that danger element is why I can't seem to just overlook this sentence and forget about the post in the cloud of everyone else's praise for it. I absolutely did not marry my husband to make him happy. I probably did marry s...